For Moms Trying to
Find a Balance

Are you trying to find a balance in your life?

You're not alone!

Being a mom is a role that requires so much juggling, flexibility, creativity, and selflessness that it’s natural to often feel overwhelmed and off balanced.

As moms, we know that we have the hardest jobs around, but sometimes even we don't appreciate that.

We often have rigid expectations of ourselves while we are generous and understanding of the next person. The trick is trying to find a balance between striving to be the best mom you can be with compassion, acceptance, and understanding for yourself.

When you’re trying to find a balance, one of the most important things to remember is that balance is about making choices. Learning to say “no” allows you to make room in your life for other things. If you say “yes” too often, and “no” not enough, you’re headed into a state of feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. You end up limiting your choices and feeling obligated and resentful.

You've been really helpful. You listen but you also give me guidance. I need that right now. -- Robin Rogers, New York, NY

Being A Good Mother

Families come in all shapes and sizes and sometimes our family doesn’t end up looking like we pictured it would. Learning how to manage as the mother in a blended family can be difficult and may leave you feeling out of place and like you're not able to be the mother you'd like to be.

Sometimes I find myself getting caught up in the day-to-day chores and chaos and I lose sight of the big picture. Reading good mother quotes can give me a much needed attitude lift. Some of these quotes are humorous, some are thought provoking, some are stirring, but all can rejuvenate your spirit and remind you of the good mother you are striving to be every day!

Work

"A mother's job is never done" and isn't that the truth! Whether you work outside the home, work at home, or are a stay at home mom, your days and nights are full. For many mothers, trying to find a balance between "work" and play is challenging.

Most mothers will err on the side of working and giving too much. This happens if you receive a paycheck or not. So it’s essential for moms to take time to replenish their inner well by reading, napping, or enjoying a night out with friends. Trying to find a balance between your professional and motherly duties and taking care of yourself is essential to keep yourself more balanced.

I've spent the past few years as a work-at-home mom and totally appreciate the challenges of trying to pursue a fulfilling career while raising small children. I'll be detailing my transition soon so visit again!

Getting Help

Do you have people in your life you can turn to when you need a break? Are you feeling lonely? A strong support system is one of the most important things for any mother to have, at every stage of her motherhood. Raising children is not easy, nor is it a limited engagement, so it’s essential to feel connected and supported.

Many moms are reluctant to ask for help. They are not used to it, feel ashamed, or don't want to be seen as failures. But when you're trying to find a balance in your life and raise the family you desire, it is essential to ask for and receive help from others. There are many other resources available to you in addition to your own friends and family.

A wonderful internet resource for moms, whether you are trying to conceive or are wrangling teenagers, is at ivillage. There you will find all sorts of useful information on parenting and taking care of yourself. Themommiesnetwork.org helps to connect local mothers through online forums and in-person get-togethers.

There are resources available for financial assistance too. Momshelp.com is a non-profit that supports mothers in need. Singlemomfinancialhelp.com offers many helpful articles on financial issues specific to single moms.

I know from personal experience that moms have the hardest jobs in the world. If you find yourself struggling with some of the many aspects of life that change with motherhood, please contact me.

A life coach can help you to rejuvenate your personal vision, lay out and complete your action plan, and rejoice over your successes! If you're trying to find a balance in your life, having someone on your side may be just what you need!

If you're not yet ready to hire a life coach, take a look at some of the items listed below. You'll be amazed at the vast amount of useful information and helpful resources available to busy and stressed out moms!

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